I
write to you this month still walking on air following the birth of our two sons,
Jonah Lev and Gabriel Addison on November 2nd. Jennifer and I are
elated by the blessing of parenthood as we welcome these two new members of our
family. We are grateful to those who brought us meals; those who attended the
britot milah
of our sons; and all who celebrated with us at this joyous time.
Standing
on the bimah as Gabriel and Jonah entered the
covenant of the Jewish people, I began to reflect, for the first time as a parent,
on what it means to raise a Jewish child. My sons will certainly experience and
learn about Judaism in our home, and in the synagogue – but being Jewish is more
than that. One of the most important lessons I hope to impart to my children
is that their Jewish identities do not end when Religious
School goes on vacation or
when they leave the sanctuary after services. Whether Jonah and Gabriel decide
to pursue athletics, drama, music, or dance, they will always be Jewish.
One
of the best ways to teach children that Judaism exists outside the walls of our
synagogues and homes is through Jewish summer camps. Camps are magical places
where students can further develop their Jewish identities and build a connection
to the Jewish community while enjoying the typical summer camp activities of sports,
arts and crafts, swimming, and making friends. From personal experience, I can
also add that camp is a place where one may meet not only friends, but in some
instances one’s future partner. Jennifer and I met, while on staff, at a Union
for Reform Judaism (URJ) camp, Greene Family Camp in Bruceville,
Texas.
As
a member synagogue in the URJ, Temple Beth Am shares a special relationship with
two camps in Western Massachusetts – URJ Eisner
Camp in Great Barrington and URJ Crane Lake Camp in West Stockbridge. While there
are many Jewish camps throughout New England, Eisner and Crane Lake
are the only two which are part of the Union
for Reform Judaism. As a result, these camps are able to seamlessly link the
Jewish experiences of our students from their time in Religious
School with their summer
activities.
In
addition, Reform Rabbis, Cantors and Educators serve as faculty at Crane Lake
and Eisner over the course of the summer. For three out of the last four summers,
I have spent at least two weeks at one of these two camps in this capacity – teaching
courses on Jewish subjects, assisting with unit worship services and Shabbat celebrations,
as well as working with b’nei mitzvah
students. Those who are interested in learning more about Eisner and Crane Lake
are invited to join me on December 16th, as we welcome a representative
from the camps to the home of our members, Beth and Mike Adler.
This
summer I look forward to returning to camp as faculty, and to bringing Gabriel
and Jonah to their first summer at camp. While they are too young to be campers,
I pray that camp will come to be a special place for them. A
place where Jonah and Gabriel will nurture their love for Judaism, and develop
their connection to the Jewish people.
L’shalom,
Rabbi
Adam F. Miller