Excerpted from Cantor Schechtman’s remarks at her 20th Anniversary Gala:
Tonight
has been a night which has celebrated me, but it is also a night
to celebrate this community.
It is not only a credit to me to have served one congregation
for 2 decades, but a huge tribute to the congregation itself.
Temple Beth Am has a history of long-term relationships
with its clergy, and I feel privileged to be a part of that
legacy.
I
have said many times that although singing is the most public
part of my job, it is truly only a small percentage of what
I do. And I am often
asked, “What is your favorite part of being a cantor?”
I couldn’t possibly narrow that down to one thing, because
really love so many aspects of this job.
When
I am chanting a prayer and I can feel God’s presence in the
depths of my soul, I think, this is why I became a cantor.
When
I am watching a bar or bat mitzvah who, I know, struggled with
Hebrew just a few months earlier, chant beautifully from the
Torah, I think, this is why I became a cantor.
When
I stand under a chuppah and look into
the teary eyes of a bride and groom as I pronounce them husband
and wife, I think, this is why I became a cantor.
When
I have been with a family through the Jewish rituals of death
and mourning and know that I have helped them find peace and
move forward, I think, this is why I became a cantor.
When
I sit in a classroom of high school students and listen to them
discuss ethics and social justice, I think, this is why I became
a cantor.
When
I hold the hand of a congregant who is lying in a hospital and
offer them comfort and prayers, I think, this is why I became
a cantor.
When
I see this bima filled with 85 Jr.
Choir members who are singing their hearts out during services,
I think, this is why I became a cantor.
When
I sit at a budget meeting to hash out numbers and try to balance
the bottom line, I think…Jr. Choir is why I became a cantor…
But
I am grateful to those who give of their own personal time to
make that bottom line balance, who stuff envelopes in the office,
who organize the books in the library and who, month after month,
sit on committees to make this temple run.
That is why we are all here. Together, we are helping to perpetuate the values
of Judaism for the next generation.
Carol
Hanover, you never cease to amaze me.
Your commitment to Temple Beth Am, to WRJ and to Jewish
philanthropic causes is incredible.
I am so fortunate to call you a friend.
Thank you for pulling all of this together and making
this weekend one that I will not forget. Thank you to Rabbi Miller and Rabbi Splansky; to Stan Schertzer for
giving me a gift which I will carry in my heart forever,
and to Rob Cohen for MC’ing with love
and affection.
Very,
very special thanks to Colleen Breitbord,
Nancy Bromley, Lisa Cohen, Eileen Davis,
Nikki Davidson, Ed Eglitis, Karen
Eglitis, Victoria
Felson, Barbara Franklin, Barbara Fritz-Elliott, Sue Habelow, Ellen Jagher, Lisa Klein, Nancy Marcus,
Susan Pell, Joanne Pike, Wendy Schwartz,
Jennifer Siegal-Miller, Ellen Weinstein,
Esther Wishnow and Evye Woldman. You are all
so special to me, and I will carry all that you have done with
me for a long time.
My
dear friends, it’s been a great run, but I’m not done yet. There are more students to teach, more simchas to celebrate, more festivals to observe. Thank you for the love and support you’ve shown
to me and to my family for 20 years.
I feel blessed to be a part of this community. Thank you for the music, for giving it to me.
Respectfully,